[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.unos.sk\/milovani-ale-aj-milujuci\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.unos.sk\/milovani-ale-aj-milujuci\/","headline":"Milovan\u00ed, ale aj miluj\u00faci","name":"Milovan\u00ed, ale aj miluj\u00faci","description":"Dne\u0161n\u00e1 doba je zl\u00e1. To je veta, ktor\u00fa \u010dasto jednak po\u010d\u00favame, ale aj sami vyslovujeme. \u013dudia s\u00fa k sebe nepr\u00edjemn\u00ed, neprajn\u00ed a niekedy dokonca protivn\u00ed. Ubli\u017euj\u00fa si, h\u013eadaj\u00fa vlastn\u00fd prospech a id\u00fa „cez m\u0155tvoly“. Toto \u010dasto plat\u00ed aj v l\u00e1ske. Tv\u00e1rime sa, \u017ee by sme pre toho druh\u00e9ho spravili v\u0161etko, \u017ee na\u0161e \u00famysly s\u00fa nesebeck\u00e9, \u010dist\u00e9 a u\u0161\u013eachtil\u00e9. V\u00e4\u010d\u0161inou to","datePublished":"2019-09-12","dateModified":"2024-02-20","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.unos.sk\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.unos.sk\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/232437c79d6ebbb41eb67b1526ce0bc08ee5047d6b1594dc05abcc3258d8e0b3?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/232437c79d6ebbb41eb67b1526ce0bc08ee5047d6b1594dc05abcc3258d8e0b3?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"unos.sk","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.unos.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a306423_w16878_t1568903648.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.unos.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a306423_w16878_t1568903648.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.unos.sk\/milovani-ale-aj-milujuci\/","about":["L\u00e1ska"],"wordCount":578,"articleBody":"Dne\u0161n\u00e1 doba je zl\u00e1. To je veta, ktor\u00fa \u010dasto jednak po\u010d\u00favame, ale aj sami vyslovujeme. \u013dudia s\u00fa k sebe nepr\u00edjemn\u00ed, neprajn\u00ed a niekedy dokonca protivn\u00ed. Ubli\u017euj\u00fa si, h\u013eadaj\u00fa vlastn\u00fd prospech a id\u00fa „cez m\u0155tvoly“. Toto \u010dasto plat\u00ed aj v l\u00e1ske. Tv\u00e1rime sa, \u017ee by sme pre toho druh\u00e9ho spravili v\u0161etko, \u017ee na\u0161e \u00famysly s\u00fa nesebeck\u00e9, \u010dist\u00e9 a u\u0161\u013eachtil\u00e9. V\u00e4\u010d\u0161inou to v\u0161ak vyzer\u00e1 tak, \u017ee sme u\u017e \u00faplne zabudli ako m\u00e1 l\u00e1ska vyzera\u0165. Ako sa chova\u0165 k \u010dloveku, o ktorom tvrd\u00edme, \u017ee ho \u013e\u00fabime. Sme s niek\u00fdm, lebo n\u00e1m to pr\u00e1ve vyhovuje a je to pre n\u00e1s v\u00fdhodn\u00e9. K\u00fdm sa n\u00e1m zd\u00e1, \u017ee ten druh\u00fd n\u00e1m m\u00e1 \u010do pon\u00faknu\u0165 tak mu smelo tvrd\u00edme, \u017ee ho \u013e\u00fabime. K\u00fdm zotrv\u00e1vanie vo vz\u0165ahu n\u00e1m d\u00e1va viac dobr\u00e9ho ako nepr\u00edjemn\u00e9ho, vieme si predstavi\u0165, \u017ee by sme n\u00e1\u0161mu partnerovi odovzdali v\u0161etko. Pritom si ale len m\u00e1lokto naozaj uvedomuje \u010do to naozaj znamen\u00e1. Nie je to jednoduch\u00e9. Len s \u0165a\u017ekos\u0165ami si \u010dlovek dok\u00e1\u017ee uvedomi\u0165 \u010do vlastne l\u00e1ska znamen\u00e1 a \u017ee to prin\u00e1\u0161a ve\u013ea obet\u00ed, bolesti, sk\u00fa\u0161ok a nie len pozit\u00edvne momenty a pocity. Nem\u00f4\u017eeme milova\u0165 len t\u00fa predstavu, ktor\u00fa o partnerovi chceme ma\u0165. Je potrebn\u00e9 nau\u010di\u0165 sa a chcie\u0165 milova\u0165 \u010dloveka tak\u00e9ho, ak\u00fd naozaj je.Jednoducho si t\u00fato l\u00e1sku m\u00f4\u017eeme uvedomi\u0165, ke\u010f ju prirovn\u00e1me k l\u00e1ske k n\u00e1\u0161mu die\u0165a\u0165u. City, ktor\u00e9 sa zvy\u010dajne v matke prebudia po tom, \u010do porod\u00ed svoje die\u0165a, bez oh\u013eadu na to \u010di je prv\u00e9 alebo piate, s\u00fa siln\u00e9, \u00faprimn\u00e9, bez podmienok a hlavne na cel\u00fd \u017eivot. Rodi\u010dia nedok\u00e1\u017eu svoje deti presta\u0165 \u013e\u00fabi\u0165 ani ke\u010f opakovane robia chyby a zra\u0148uj\u00fa ich. Prij\u00edmaj\u00fa svojich potomkov tak\u00fdch, ak\u00ed s\u00fa. Samozrejme, ani t\u00e1to l\u00e1ska nem\u00e1 by\u0165 slep\u00e1. M\u00e1 by\u0165 vychov\u00e1vaj\u00faca, niekedy mo\u017eno aj pr\u00edsna a trestaj\u00faca. L\u00e1ska, ktor\u00e1 chce to najlep\u0161ie pre svoje die\u0165a aj vtedy, ke\u010f tomu ono samo nedok\u00e1\u017ee porozumie\u0165 a prija\u0165 to.\u010eal\u0161ia vec, ktor\u00e1 je oh\u013eadom l\u00e1sky na dne\u0161nej dobe zvl\u00e1\u0161tna je to, \u017ee \u013eudia si \u010d\u00edm \u010falej t\u00fdm viac vyber\u00fa zvieracieho mil\u00e1\u010dika ako \u010dloveka. \u013dudia ich sklamali, tak vlo\u017eia v\u0161etky svoje city do svojho psa, ma\u010dky alebo in\u00e9ho zviera\u0165a. Samozrejme. Aj ony potrebuj\u00fa, aby sme ich vedeli ma\u0165 radi a aby sme s o nich starali. Ide len o to, \u017ee nesmieme zab\u00fada\u0165, \u017ee sme stvoren\u00ed a usp\u00f4soben\u00ed na to, aby sme milovali v prvom rade \u013eud\u00ed, a\u017e potom zvierat\u00e1 a veci.Je \u013eahk\u00e9 zamilova\u0165 sa do ide\u00e1lu, ktor\u00fd sme si z niekoho vytvorili. O ko\u013eko n\u00e1ro\u010dnej\u0161ie v\u0161ak je nau\u010di\u0165 sa milova\u0165 niekoho skuto\u010dne. A nie len nau\u010di\u0165, ale rozhodn\u00fa\u0165 sa a rozhodova\u0165 sa tak v\u017edy znova a znova. Stoj\u00ed to v\u0161ak za to. Preto\u017ee vzd\u00e1va\u0165 sa dok\u00e1\u017ee ka\u017ed\u00fd, ale bojova\u0165 dok\u00e1\u017eu len t\u00ed odv\u00e1\u017eni.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        4.6\/5 - (5 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Milovan\u00ed, ale aj miluj\u00faci","item":"https:\/\/www.unos.sk\/milovani-ale-aj-milujuci\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]